The ulimate stress release for women
Literally meaning “sacred space or temple”. In Tantra, the vagina is the worshipped sacred part of the female body, which must be treated with care and respect. The Yoni massage is a sensuous form of bodywork that can build trust between the giver and receiver as well as connect the receiver to their inner sensual nature resulting in a feeling of complete well-being, satisfaction, and contentment.
Although the Yoni massage can be extremely stimulating, the purpose is not to bring the woman to orgasm. Rather, it is to relax the receiver and to bring emotions to the surface so that she is free to express her natural, powerful, orgasmic nature. The experiences and feelings that a woman may have during the Yoni massage can be very different, ranging from anger, lust, sadness, or even indifference. Everything is possible and everything is allowed. The Yoni massage is not about focusing on a special kind of feeling or fulfilling a particular expectation. The idea is simply to witness the receiver and to honor and respect her feminine nature as a divine Goddess.
Before beginning the massage, you should gaze into each other’s eyes while embracing and engaging in deep, relaxed, synchronized breathing. By doing this, the giver and receiver connect on a deep level, creating openness and the ground on which the yoni massage will grow. Both the giver and receiver should remember to keep breathing deeply, slowly, and with relaxation during the entire process.
When you are both ready to begin the massage, the woman lies on her back with one pillow under her head and another under her hips to elevate her pelvis. She bends her knees and opens her legs to expose her Yoni. Sit comfortably between her legs with your legs crossed. You may wish to sit on a pillow or cushion.
Begin by massaging other parts of her body to encourage her to relax, start taking deeper breaths, and relax the muscles. Gently, but firmly, massage her legs, thighs, stomach, breasts and arms before venturing toward the Yoni. Next, massage the pubic bone area and then move down to the inner thigh area. With the right hand (the right hand is used to balance the polarity of Tantra), apply a high-quality oil or lubricant to the mound of the Yoni, pouring just enough so that it drips down the outer lips and covers the outside of the Yoni.
Gently rub the oil on the outer lips of the Yoni. With the thumb and index finger, gently squeeze each lip, sliding the fingers up and down the entire length of each lip. Then, carefully repeat this process with each inner lip of the vagina varying the pressure and speed of touch based on what feels right.
Next, gently stroke the clitoris in a circular motion, clockwise and counter-clockwise. Then, squeeze the clitoris between the thumb and index finger. Next, slowly and with great care, insert your middle finger into her Yoni. Very gently explore and massage the inside of the Yoni with your finger. Varying the speed and depth of your finger, feel inside the Yoni up, down and around. With your palm pointing upward and your finger inside your partner’s Yoni, bend your finger to make contact with her G-spot, known as the “sacred spot” in Tantra.
Continue the massage, trying different speeds, pressures and motions. Keep breathing and gazing into each other’s eyes. You may have powerful emotions come up and feel like crying, or burst out laughing. This is simply blocked energy being freed and is very healing. Just keep breathing as the massage continues. If orgasm occurs, continue breathing. Don’t hold back, yell, scream, release the energy and emotions. This is your safe healing time. And remember that breathing is very important to continually move the energy throughout the body. This also enhances the healing aspect of the yoni massage. More orgasms may occur, each gaining in intensity. In Tantra this is called “riding the wave.” Many women can learn how to be multi-orgasmic with the Yoni massage and a patient, caring partner.
Keep massaging until she tells you to stop. Very slowly, gently, and mindfully, remove your hands. The Yoni massage creates a space for a woman to relax, and enter a state of high arousal and experience much pleasure from her Yoni. Allow her to just lie there, perhaps covering her with a blanket making a warm cocoon around her body, and letting her to enjoy the afterglow of the Yoni massage. This is a profound time of great peace as you experience the joy of being a witness to this special moment.
I imagine coming to meet you. You start by enjoying a nice long hot bath or shower, letting the hot water relax your muscles. you get out, dry off, wrap a towel around your body as I lead you out to the bedroom…
I walk behind you as you lead me into the room…I take you to the edge of the bed.. standing behind you I slide my hands around you pulling you into me as I start to softly sensually kiss the back and side of your neck, up to your ear gently nibbling sucking it as I work back down your neck..sitting you down as I move behind you…I place my hands on your head as my fingers begin to massage your head… spending time to allow you to really relax and enjoy the pleasure….. leaning forward i take your ear between my lips, gently sucking as I slowly kiss my way down the side of your neck…out along your shoulder…….. then slowly back up and to the other side to do the same thing again, all the time my fingers massaging all over your scalp……. After a while I stand up and ask you to lay back on the bed, getting yourself comfortable as you lay face down…… I climb up next to you and start to massage the back of your neck… up and down…up and down… after a while… I stop, reach for the oil that I have warmed pouring it down your spine….i place my hands on your back slowly rubbing the oil all over your back as my hands start to massage the back of your shoulders…..I work as slowly as I can inching my way down your back until my hands reach your ass, my fingers start to knead your cheeks……….over and over, first one then the other, then back again…..making sure all the muscles are relaxed as possible…..then slowly i run my hands down the back of your legs and up again as I start to work first one leg, slowly working down and massaging each of the muscles to makes sure I get them as relaxed as possible……all the way to your foot, then back up and then the other leg….. Then I move back to your ass, again taking my time to really knead each cheek before sliding ym hands up your back, sliding my body up yours as I go…as I start to kiss your neck up to your ear and across the other side again…. I then move off of you as I tell you to roll over….. As you lay back down I grab your wrist as I reach behind the bed and grab a a wrist restraint, strapping it around your wrist as I grab your other wrist reaching behind to grab the other restraint to wrap around your other wrist as well…. your wrists are tied up as your arms rest bent slightly above your head…. I then place a blindfold over your eyes… I start to run my hands up and down your arms sliding my hands out over each of your fingers…first one arm then over to the other, spending time to allow you to enjoy all the sensations of my hands sliding and massaging your arms…..then I slide my hands down between your breasts..down your stomach over your thighs as my fingers slide down the inside of your thighs…I start to run my hands slowly up and down your thighs, allowing my fingers to slide up the inside of your thighs, going further and further up getting closer and closer to your pussy until they are almost touching….then I slide my hands back up over your stomach up between your breasts and out and down your arms…….I move my hands up firstly to 1 breast, starting at your nipple i slowly start to make small circles (clockwise and counter clockwise) slowly moving out over your breasts to your arm….then moving over to your other breast to do the same……hen I stop, grab the oil again and start pouring the warm oil onto your pussy mound so that it drips down the outer lips and covers the outside of your pussy. I begin by gently massaging the mound and outer lips. Spending plenty of time here making sure not to rush.. After awhile I start to gently squeeze the outer lip between my thumb and index finger, sliding up and down the entire length of each lip…up and down…up and down…. Then I do the same to the inner lips, as you lay back enjoying the sensations……. After a while I start to stroke the clitoris with clockwise and counter-clockwise circles. Gently squeezing it between my thumb and index fingers, gently massaging it…Then slowly I start to insert my middle finger of my other hand inside you….exploring and massaging the inside of your pussy with my finger, taking my time to be gentle, and feeling up, down and sideways, so as to maximise the various sensations that is brings you, as you lay back relaxed, concentrating on the enjoyment of my touch…. I continue to massage, varying the depth, speed and pressure……….After continuing to massage you like this for some time, I move down to start to slowly kiss my way up the inside of your thighs, further and further… that would be a good start!!!!